Safety isn't a feature here. It's the foundation.
Every part of Social Butterflies is built around one question: would you feel safe bringing your daughter, your sister, or your best friend in here? Here's exactly how we answer yes.
Our safety pillars
Verification before you can chat
New members complete a short verification step before they can post or DM anyone in the server. This keeps out bots, alt accounts, and people who aren't here for the right reasons.
A real, trained mod team
Our moderators aren't random volunteers handed a badge. They're trained on how to handle harassment reports, conflicts, and crisis situations, and they cover multiple time zones so someone is always around.
Zero tolerance for harassment
Unwanted DMs, sexual comments, bullying, or disrespect are not warnings-first issues. Confirmed violations lead to immediate removal. We would rather lose a member than let someone feel unsafe.
Private, judgment-free reporting
A dedicated, anonymous report channel goes straight to the mod team — not the public chat. You'll never have to call someone out in front of everyone to get help.
Age-appropriate spaces
Channels and events are organized so conversations stay appropriate for who's actually in them, with clear rules around what's shared and where.
Clear, public rules — no surprise bans
Our full rules are posted and pinned in the server, not hidden in a mod's head. If a rule gets enforced, you'll know exactly which one and why.
If something feels wrong, tell us — privately
Every server has a private, anonymous report channel that goes directly to the mod team, not the public chat. You will never be asked to call someone out publicly to get help. Confirmed harassment leads to immediate removal.
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